Trust who you will, or won't. If my actions are untrustworthy, I can't complain. If they are not a problem, but you are nervous, then do what is best for you. I've done nothing that I know of to harm you, but instead occasionally try to mention different ways of seeing things. Sometimes I am right (copyright issues) and sometimes I am wrong (didn't know Comcast had a long lease time on their IP addrs, which is interesting from a technical sense).

As to the poll - I know nothing of the story, having taken special effort to AVOID the drama as much as I can. I'd say what I know is the surface information both sides have shared, as I've not gone asking further. I think it is understandable that someone might see the past as better (thus the tendency of the elderly to talk about how much better things used to be), and I think it is equally understandable to mourn the loss of something that felt good at the time. What actions are taken to resolve the tension that lead to the loss will dictate the merit of change, but it isn't unreasonable to note that things have gone downhill when they have.

I have no intent to make you change any decisions. But, don't be surprised when they have minimal impact on mine, k?