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Mar. 1st, 2006
the great question hunt....
Mar. 1st, 2006 02:51 pmAnswers (1)
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Once the moose has reached the river, it is easy to snatch the pearl from the hand of Buddha.
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If being under observation by those that care for your health and wellbeing is appropriate, seek out those that share your life first before someone notices where you are, and calls people with those funny backwards longcoats. You'd be surprised what people see inside you, both the thoughts you hold, and the possibilities. Don't let them (or yourself) down by not involving them in what they've already chosen.
Should I move out of Atlanta to pursue my career goal?
You should go anywhere your heart leads, to do whatever you want to do. If the place or the people aren't getting you what you need in life, change one or both. I'd notice your absence, but I'd be happy that you were following the pathway your dreams have shown you.
What *is* Your question?
Ah... odd, that. Mine is "how can I motivate someone that sees themselves as their only motivator? How can I provide any maintenance for someone that prefers to be seen as self-sustaining? How can I invoke passion in someone that is frustrated with life, itself?" Oops. that seems to be three....
Why do I have such terrible luck with women?
That's bad luck? I could only wish for such.... As such, I'm not sure I can answer. Are you getting a lot of the "let's just be friends" thing? What are you seeking, and does it mesh with what is available? One of the biggest problems I have found in dealing with my self-esteem is not that I am unattractive, but that I don't seem to be as attractive as I would desire to people I want to find me so. I am quite shallow, and freely admit that I desire very specific traits (physical, mental, etc). When someone falls outside that, they may think I'm worthy of portrayal in statuary but it won't register or have the same meaning. Check outside your filters, and see who's trying to get your attention.
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jost Did you go get a dirty forehead today?
Not yet, no. Morning services were unavailable in the timeframe I had. Might be a tonight thing, though. I need to remember to bury the palm fronds from last year, too.
I did remember to have pancakes last night, though!
knorg I am sent by Tregard and I quest for the shield. Do you have it?
Tregard is a kneebiter. He keeps sending adventurers this way, hoping that they will find the shield and return it to him. It's not as if it is a particularly nice shield, either. But, that's neither here nor there.
Do you want the standard 9 challenges, or the sub-quest? Make it snappy, as I have to go get ketchup.
what do you find desirable in a female?
This is unfair, in light of my previous statements about being shallow.... but, here ya go, a short list:
1. shape -- not bony, nor obese. Curves are good, but only as many as the body SHOULD have. Softly strong.
2. appearance -- clean, refreshed, not overly decorated. I am not a fan of a lot of body art or bling.
3. posture -- relaxed attentiveness. Yah, make sense of that, and you'll understand.
4. mind -- quick of wit, fast to perceive, good at finding proofs within points.
5. intellect -- depth of knowledge in religion, mathematics, physics, gastronomy, computing a plus.
6. passion -- strong in their desires, and willing to express that strength and fire.
7. loyalty -- supportive of my heart, not my actions, of my goals, not my methods.
8. tone -- F, A, Bb, C, Eb okay, but D is best.
9. spirit -- dedicated to the improvement of creation, not to absorbtion of self.
That's the short list.
::redacted::
Once the moose has reached the river, it is easy to snatch the pearl from the hand of Buddha.
::redacted::
If being under observation by those that care for your health and wellbeing is appropriate, seek out those that share your life first before someone notices where you are, and calls people with those funny backwards longcoats. You'd be surprised what people see inside you, both the thoughts you hold, and the possibilities. Don't let them (or yourself) down by not involving them in what they've already chosen.
Should I move out of Atlanta to pursue my career goal?
You should go anywhere your heart leads, to do whatever you want to do. If the place or the people aren't getting you what you need in life, change one or both. I'd notice your absence, but I'd be happy that you were following the pathway your dreams have shown you.
What *is* Your question?
Ah... odd, that. Mine is "how can I motivate someone that sees themselves as their only motivator? How can I provide any maintenance for someone that prefers to be seen as self-sustaining? How can I invoke passion in someone that is frustrated with life, itself?" Oops. that seems to be three....
Why do I have such terrible luck with women?
That's bad luck? I could only wish for such.... As such, I'm not sure I can answer. Are you getting a lot of the "let's just be friends" thing? What are you seeking, and does it mesh with what is available? One of the biggest problems I have found in dealing with my self-esteem is not that I am unattractive, but that I don't seem to be as attractive as I would desire to people I want to find me so. I am quite shallow, and freely admit that I desire very specific traits (physical, mental, etc). When someone falls outside that, they may think I'm worthy of portrayal in statuary but it won't register or have the same meaning. Check outside your filters, and see who's trying to get your attention.
jost Did you go get a dirty forehead today? Not yet, no. Morning services were unavailable in the timeframe I had. Might be a tonight thing, though. I need to remember to bury the palm fronds from last year, too.
I did remember to have pancakes last night, though!
knorg I am sent by Tregard and I quest for the shield. Do you have it?Tregard is a kneebiter. He keeps sending adventurers this way, hoping that they will find the shield and return it to him. It's not as if it is a particularly nice shield, either. But, that's neither here nor there.
Do you want the standard 9 challenges, or the sub-quest? Make it snappy, as I have to go get ketchup.
what do you find desirable in a female?
This is unfair, in light of my previous statements about being shallow.... but, here ya go, a short list:
1. shape -- not bony, nor obese. Curves are good, but only as many as the body SHOULD have. Softly strong.
2. appearance -- clean, refreshed, not overly decorated. I am not a fan of a lot of body art or bling.
3. posture -- relaxed attentiveness. Yah, make sense of that, and you'll understand.
4. mind -- quick of wit, fast to perceive, good at finding proofs within points.
5. intellect -- depth of knowledge in religion, mathematics, physics, gastronomy, computing a plus.
6. passion -- strong in their desires, and willing to express that strength and fire.
7. loyalty -- supportive of my heart, not my actions, of my goals, not my methods.
8. tone -- F, A, Bb, C, Eb okay, but D is best.
9. spirit -- dedicated to the improvement of creation, not to absorbtion of self.
That's the short list.
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Mar. 1st, 2006 10:14 pmTonight, for dinner, we had....
SQUID PASTA!
Well, actually.... that's a bed of sauce, on which sits squid-ink colored spaghetti. Same flavor, but a nice goth black color. The munchkin balked until she tried it, and da boy insisted it wasn't spaghetti at all. The rest of us were just fine with the colors and flavors, and we thought we'd share. Next time you are at Whole Foods, check out the colors!
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SQUID PASTA!
Well, actually.... that's a bed of sauce, on which sits squid-ink colored spaghetti. Same flavor, but a nice goth black color. The munchkin balked until she tried it, and da boy insisted it wasn't spaghetti at all. The rest of us were just fine with the colors and flavors, and we thought we'd share. Next time you are at Whole Foods, check out the colors!
